Stress, no matter what form it comes in, can alter the quality of our lives. It’s also known to be one of the key factors for various life threatening illnesses. Women today have so many irons in the fire. We’re mothers, wives, employees, entrepreneurs and super friends..just to name a few. We carry unbearable loads at times, and most of the time we’re totally unaware of the weight..until we crack under the pressure.
What I’ve learned from experience and from other women, is that tending to self is essential to preservation, and helps us keep it all somewhat together. When we practice healthy emotional and physical care, it helps balance our lives, and we can better handle stress. The goal is to nourish our mind and spirit with healthy practices, the way we feed our bodies healthy food. So how do we do that?
1.Remember God’s in charge. The first point of defense from stress is knowing this. Don’t try and take over what’s not in your hands. God not only has your back, but has every aspect of you covered. Now I’m not saying to omit putting the work in. What I’m saying is be aware of the things you can control. As for the things you can’t “let go, and let God.” We must also love ourselves like God does, and be forgiving and gentle with ourselves.
2.We must value ourselves, and practice rituals that honor not deplete us, and keep us from being our best. After achieving major accomplishments, give yourself a break. Find some time to reflect and recharge before jumping head first into your next big thing to do. Give yourself permission to rest. I know that’s easier said than done, and it’s something that I struggle with, but I’m aware that its something I must learn to master..if I want to live with less stress in my life.
3. I can’t say enough about how important it is to keep a grateful heart. Gratitude changes everything. Whenever we’re overly concerned about any situation that we’re encountering, we should always remember that it could be worst. So if we’re experiencing any trials and tribulations, big or small, that means we’re alive and circumstances could change. If we are grateful for what we have physically and what we can learn from the experiences in our lives, we make space to receive better.
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Until our next stylish encounter..as always loves, stay inspired.
This was great and such a gentle reminder to always remain grateful and God. Love ourselves like God does. Thank you
Awesome tips and gorgeous shots Elaine!!!
Thank you for sharing Babe!
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I loved this article , Very relatable and attainable ways of decreasing the day to day stress we all feel especially now. The part in particular that resonated with me is needing to give myself permission rest after major accomplishments. I tend to feel uneasy with not having something else in the works; almost like the other shoe will drop if I don’t have something else I’m struggling to do. Rarely have I ever thought it was okay to sit and celebrate my accomplishments. I just finished my second degree and I feel like what’s next?? But I will definitely be taking this advice to heart. 💙
So much Fabulousness in this post. Yes. . .we have to take care of ME first Sis.
You’re bang on with all of these points. Accepting things you can’t control is a big one I have to remind myself often.
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Yes! I’m constantly reminding myself.I don’t think we are ever totally delivered from that. We gotta just keep reminding ourselves as long as we have too.
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Thanks, I needed this so much. I literally prayed my way through your points and felt better for it. God is sovereign; He’s got this.
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Thanks so much for stopping by, and taking the time to read my post..I really appreciate it. I so happy that it was of help to you. As long as we remember Gods in charge, we will have way less stress.
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Hi hun
I’m so grateful that this helped you. God is most definitely great.
God is in charge, self value and grateful heart…these are indeed great truths. It’s so easy to get carried away by the hustle and bustle of life especially as women. And in this difficult time/year, everyone need(s) to hear this. Thanks so much for sharing.
Yes he is! I firmly believe that gratitude is what has kept me all these years.Thanks so much for stopping by Beauty.
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